Jean!
Man, Ive seen this thread getting longer and longer and I have to say more and more involved and touching... My apologies for my delayed response but I wanted to say i agree with most of these people on here, and I say dont stop it! Put it on hold till the situation is right, I think in some time you will know exactly what is right for the project or maybe you know already in your heart but from the looks of it, looks like your getting a lot of love for it.... Something I read that I think fits this scenerio:
Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.
Full support from me with whatever your decision is, you know whats right!