we need less "fashion police" that tells people you shouldn't clap. Or yell. Or whistle. Or dance. Or dance in a certain way. Or dress in a certain way. It's starting to work on my tits that these days everyone wants to get everything into rules of conduct or something.... a party should exactly be the place to be free to do what you want.
When I think about things that bother me at parties nowadays, it's mostly the huge stages where dj's are standing 20 meters away and a few meters above the crowd, as if they are more than people playing other people's tunes. Or better then the crowd. And also ditch the VIP-area-with-100-people-behind-the-booth thing too, as Dj Tanith once said back in the days when raves all started: on the dancefloor, everyone's the same
The superstar-dj-thing works on my nerves far more than people clapping or having fun. The odacity!